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Brenda Gay Eldred

November 25, 1946 — November 26, 2021

Brenda Gay Eldred, a resident of Stratford, was born November 25, 1946, Pauls Valley, OK, to the late W.F. and Lola (Brewster) Wilkins. She died on Friday, November 26, 2021, in Stratford, at the age of 75 years and 1 day.

Survivors include three daughters, Deanna Norton, Davilon West, and Angie Harvey; two sons, Joe Norton and Earnie Eldred, Jr; twenty-one grandchildren; several great-grandchildren; one sister, Rose Bradley; four brothers, C.R Wilkins, D.L. Wilkins, Johnny Hudson, and Gary Hudson; as well as numerous nieces, nephews, and cousins.

In addition to her parents, Brenda was preceded in death by her husband, Earnest Lee Eldred, Sr; and four siblings, Joy May Boulter, Linda Withers, James Wilkins, and Tommy Hudson.

Graveside services will be held 10:00 AM, Wednesday, December 1, 2021, at the Dolberg Cemetery, with Pastor Willard McCartney, Jr officiating.

The family wishes to express their sincere appreciation to Joanna Cox for the exceptional care and devotion given to Brenda over the past few months. Your assistance will never be forgotten.

Services are entrusted to Hale’s Funeral Home of Sulphur.
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Wednesday, December 1, 2021

Starts at 10:00 am (Central time)

Dolberg Cemetery

Dolberg Road, OK 73086

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